These days everyone struggles to make ends meet. As a professional dominant, I’m part of an industry that relies on discretionary spending and suffers when times are tough. Years ago when I finished my PhD and started seeing new clients…
7 Reasons to Choose a Professional Dominant
I’m frequently asked why clients choose my services. Why would someone pay a beautiful woman for her time, when sex isn’t involved? Why pay for professional BDSM when there are so many lifestyle players? Conversely, lifestyle friends question the payoffs…
Advice for Aspiring ProDommes
About once a month, I get an email from someone asking if I take on apprentices or would be willing to train them. I respond to these emails often enough that it seems wise for me to write up a…
Financial Dominance: My Unpopular Opinion
I think financial dominance is putting the cart before the horse. Novice dominants often fall prey to believing in their own “get rich quick” schemes, focusing too much on short-term satisfaction and short-lived gains. I am lucky enough to have…