These days everyone struggles to make ends meet. As a professional dominant, I’m part of an industry that relies on discretionary spending and suffers when times are tough. Years ago when I finished my PhD and started seeing new clients…
7 Reasons to Choose a Professional Dominant
I’m frequently asked why clients choose my services. Why would someone pay a beautiful woman for her time, when sex isn’t involved? Why pay for professional BDSM when there are so many lifestyle players? Conversely, lifestyle friends question the payoffs…
A First Timer Guide to DomCon
Maybe attending DomCon isn’t your first kink event ever, but if it’s your first time to DomCon then it will definitely be an experience unlike any other. There are some distinct differences between DomCon (which is the first and…
Advice for Aspiring ProDommes
About once a month, I get an email from someone asking if I take on apprentices or would be willing to train them. I respond to these emails often enough that it seems wise for me to write up a…
Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation – a book
Princess Kali, the founder of KinkAcademy.com and famous former Dominatrix has just released her first book… Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation It’s available in both paperback and Kindle Edition and you can even purchase an autographed copy…
Financial Dominance: My Unpopular Opinion
I think financial dominance is putting the cart before the horse. Novice dominants often fall prey to believing in their own “get rich quick” schemes, focusing too much on short-term satisfaction and short-lived gains. I am lucky enough to have…
Thoughts about DomCon Atlanta 2013
It’s been two weeks since I flew to Atlanta for the 10 year anniversary of DomCon – which has been busy with catching up on work, then moving to my permanent home in the Bay Area, and now catching up…
Should you book every session request you get?
It is much better to find clients that fit your tastes rather than just taking every session that comes along. Yes, you may take a few less sessions, but the ones you do take will be higher quality which makes…
For “pop-up” dommes looking for a ‘short-cut’
(I was inspired by Sarah Sloane’s awesome post about why she thinks she’d be a lousy Pro-Domme to dig out this slightly snarky bit I posted on my Fetlife profile) I receive many emails each month from women asking me…
5 Quick Tips for Success as a Pro Domme
1) Be who you are, not who you think others want you to be. Leave room for your own growth, don’t brand yourself into a corner. 2) DON’T get Domme-ites, which means that you believe everyone, not just your clients,…